Gad to be Grey

Isn't it funny how society is?
It's almost as though there are solid rules behind the scenes, rules that make everything tick but which are so slippery you just can never grasp what they might be.
We know that society needs people who can do things, make things happen. They are the builders and designers, the engineers. Those people keep the electricity and the water flowing. They can bring enormous focus to bear on seemingly intractable problems and solve them by sheer muscle of thought alone.
They are our dreamers, our war criminals, and our finest artists and scientists. They deal with the world of imagination, pondering the impossible, gathering knowledge about the unknowable, just on the off chance that it might be useful one day.
They are the reason we have telephones and the internet and medicine, and they once took us to the moon. If ever our species is threatened with extinction they are likely to be both the cause of the threat and our best hope for survival.
Then there's the other, complementary demographic that acts in part as a support mechanism for the thinkers and do-ers. They clean up the mess when the dreamers forget that their dreaming comes at a cost. They are there at the forefront when war and idiocy claims lives and rips the fabric that holds us all together.
They care, where the dreamer does not, often sacrificing their own aspirations in support of some greater common good. They are healers rather than doctors, secretaries rather than directors.
I am of course, describing masculine and feminine stereotypes, recognising as I do that they are just that. Masculine traits can often appear in women, and feminine traits in men. Men are capable of caring, and women can sometimes build bridges.
But these stereotypes are actually quite useful when thinking not about the differences between men and women, but about how we function as a species. Clearly, the rules that we once imagined defined our gender roles have been all but universally broken. Even the physical restrictions of sexual biology have been transcended.
This really all boils down to a matter of survival, our current world reflecting a billion years of adaptation and evolution.
I once read an interview with an inmate of Glasgow's infamous Barlinnie Prison Special Unit. I forget the gentleman's name, and cannot find it now, but he was serving a life sentence for a brutal murder and was a contemporary of Jimmy Boyle.
He quite correctly pointed out that the kind of crime he committed would have been seen as an act of heroism in a different setting and historical era. He described himself as a butcher, which he was, but said that his blood lust (literally, the psychopathic need to kill) would have been greatly valued on the million battlefields of history.
He imagined himself as a great warrior, hacking and hewing lesser men with a gigantic blade, heedless of his own fate, impervious to pain. His heroes may have been the Berserker Vikings, driven to frenzy by the consumption of fly agaric mushrooms to the point where the only thing that made sense was to kill and kill until the point of exhaustion.
These days war is a much more hypocritical affair, at least as far as we more "civilised" people are concerned. We take great pains to demonstrate how honourable we are at the same time as water-boarding potentially innocent men and bombing women and children.
But the Barlinnie Butcher's point was that there must have been times when the survival of a community depended utterly on the ability of one or two crazy eyed individuals to enter the killing frenzy. So, our existence relied on there being people of that kind, or at least what we are today is in part defined by such people.
We must have needed musicians too, else why have them? And poets and bards, men and women who were able to remember and repeat stories, creating a orally founded culture that is all but gone in this age of digital record keeping. Who needs to remember anything these days?
Our traditions are ever changing. Our needs ever evolving. Just as the dog is no longer capable of being the wolf, humans have grown softer. We have adapted to weed out the brutal killers. We lock the psychopaths behind bars, or we medicate them to the point of subservience. Or we promote them to be captains of industry (where the damage they do can be to some extent ameliorated by the organs of bureaucracy).
Civilisation is not a veneer. The dog is much more than three solid meals removed from the ruthless carnivore of old. We humans have been changed and continue to be changed by our developing experience as hive creatures. As more and more of us choose (or are compelled) to live in cities, those of us who value individual freedom above the collective effort are slowly, slowly becoming less and less necessary for the survival of the species.
We still need our dreamers and do-ers, our carers and sharers, but the further on we go, the more we communicate, the more we live in one anothers' pockets, the less barbarous we become, the more homogenous we need to be.
It looks like the future will be painted in pleasing shades of grey - grey men and women, transgenderised to be more or less the same.
But should that worry us? Must we mourn the passing of the barbarous days of our youth, and remark wistfully on the blandly endless tundra that leads on to our ascension to something less fiery?
I don't think so. The future will be what it must be, and men and women and children will do what they need to do to survive. If it turns out that by smoothing away our rough edges, by becoming more like one another, the hive stands to thrive, then that's the way it will be.
Perhaps even the urge to long for the past will disappear as we are required more and more to consider what is coming rather than what has been. Will nature take us down such a cul-de-sac, sacrificing diversity for the sake of a deeper focus on the most likely path to success?
In truth I simply don't know, and I suspect there isn't anyone who does. Our viewpoint is limited, our experience of life and nature is subjective, and all the span of years that humans have existed is no more than an invisible wink of light in the eternal beige of the universe.
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